FastLynx split screen

[ljb]

I just installed FastLynx 3.3 to on my computer.  I am trying to transfer files from my old computer which has Windows 95 to another computer which has Windows XP.  I am using the serial port cables.
I installed the program on both computers (correct?) and the installations seemed to be fine and the connections seem to be working.
However, the screen on each computer shows only the files on that computer.  I do not have the split screen so that I can transfer the files.
What am I doing wrong? 
Thanks for your help.

[Jonathan]

How do you have the computer's set up on the connections settings on the right hand window?  What connections are checked, and which mode is each computer set to?

Also, under the connection drop down at the top of fastlynx, make sure both compturs are set to remote.